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The magic power of words
Bibbity, bobbity, boo!
Abracadabra!
Look! Everything is different!
No?
Okay, just kidding.
But words do have power. That one doesn’t because it sounds silly and doesn’t matter.
I know in a way, saying three magic words is another one of those silly self-help tricks. If you’ve been burned by “positive affirmations” and “counting down from 5 to 1” you are going to be wise to give this piece of advice the side-eye.
But we already associate words with things. We do it naturally. My husband is associated with “laughter.” My kitchen with “food” and “messy.” My bed with “comfort.” Notebooks with “excitement” and “potential.” My laptop with “the world.” As in “World Wide Web.”
We play word association automatically all the time.
Home. That one resonates. It evokes images of safety, love, and comfort.
Water. Cleanliness … relaxation … a long drink on a hot day. Splashing waterfalls, rain.
Snow. Sharp winter night. Peaceful silent snowfall. Or howling blizzard. Or a white Christmas.
I fully understand that “home” can bring up images of violence and chaos. “Water” can be floods and…
